If you are here following the loss of your baby – at any point and
however long ago – my heart goes out to you. It is incredibly difficult to
find the word to describe how it feels when your baby dies. And sometimes even the most carefully chosen words are not enough.
The book does not pretend to answer all your questions about why your baby died, but it will recognise the importance of those questions. It will not tell you how to grieve, but it will acknowledge your need to grieve. It will go some way to quenching the thirst for statistics and explanations of known causes of pregnancy loss and look at where research might take that quest in the future.
It is all too common for those who experience pregnancy loss to feel their grief is not acknowledged. It is recognised in this book. My aim is that this book will also give others pause for thought and persuade them that even clumsily articulated words of comfort are better than none at all.
Zoë Taylor











